Recently, I had the privilege of being a judge at the “Strut Ya Stuff” Talent competition at the Harlem School of the Arts Theater. I was excited to be a part of and support an event that allowed me to encourage the youth. While watching each contestant perform, I was overcome with emotion; I couldn’t help but remember how I got my start in the arts. I was impressed by the range of talent and courage displayed by those young artists. It was an opportunity for me to pass on the love and encouragement that helped me to choose the path I am on today.

Following the judging of the contestants it was my turn to perform. As the music came on I began singing the first few lines of the single “Open”, the CD with the background music began to skip. It became obvious that I would not be able to sing the song as rehearsed. At that moment, I remember thinking to myself, “really, is this really happening right now?” but my thoughts were interrupted when an audience member began to shout, “Sing it acapella!”

I replied back “You know what, it looks like that’s what it is gonna have to be”. So after taking a deep breath and letting go of my initial frustration, I motioned for the audience to clap with me. I started singing the song. My voice carried throughout the packed theater with a fierceness and determination that overshadowed the initial shock of the technical mishap. I felt strong. My quality of my voice was being heard in its most organic and pure state and I could hear myself opening up. It didn’t matter anymore that the audience couldn’t bop their heads along to the track…I allowed the melodies, my passion and words to carry me through and the audience let me know that they were with me the whole way.

I closed out by encouraging the youth to continuing nurturing their talent and to continue to live their dreams. I told them to use this performance as a lesson, that no matter what happens or how hard things get, “the show must go on!” The words just came so naturally to me. I realized that my performance was not just a promotional opportunity but also an opportunity for me to be an example to the youth; to let them know that challenges come to you at the most vulnerable moments and they force you to dig deep within yourself to find the solution and rise up. They come so suddenly, that there isn’t always time for you to process the disappointment and fear.

There is no better time to channel strength and courage but it all begins with believing in “you.”